Live The Love Life!
No man can be authentic without expressing love in his relationships. You are the source of love for your family. They need to not only hear you say it but also see you express it.
A gallant man is honorable in his relationships. He relates to women who are older as his mother. He honors a young woman has his own daughter. He treats his peers as his sister. The only woman who gets the intimacy of his eyes and the passion of his loins is his wife.
A man who loves his wife and children will not do anything to bring harm to his family. DO NOT SURRENDER YOUR DIGNITY by being dishonorable.
Tell your family that you love them.